Tools and Books I Recommend
The short list: where to look something up before you say yes, a few screen time and safety apps for when
the free controls aren’t enough, and a few books worth your time.
Prices checked September 2026
Start with what’s free
The controls built into your kid’s phone or computer cost nothing and handle most of what paid apps do. If
you haven’t set those up yet, start with the checklist for their device:
1
Look It Up Before You Say Yes
Your kid wants a new game, app, or movie. These tell you what’s actually in it.
2
Screen Time Apps, When You Need More
All of these sit on top of the controls your kid’s device already has. Pick one, since parental
control apps often don’t play nicely stacked on top of each other.
3
Books Worth Your Time
Two to read with your kids, and three for you. The book links are my Amazon affiliate links, so I may
earn a small commission if you buy one.